Sunday, February 24, 2008
I LIVED!
I stayed in bed all day Friday with one phone call to Sherri Storm to ask her to get the word out that I was really sick and needed all to pray. My son-in-law drove me to the mountain retreat while I was zoned out. Twenty minutes before time to speak the sickness lifted from me as if it evaporated into thin air and I was fine from that moment on.
I treasure the time spent with these men. I watched God fall from heaven into their hearts. It seemed visible to see them released to believe God works. This morning I preached a the North Atlanta Church where a-friend-to-many, Don McLaughlin, preaches. It was a fabulous morning. God attended. We knew it!
God had us laughing and then we'd be crying and then we'd be laughing and then we'd be praising and then.....it was a tremendously emotion-packed morning of joy in Him! Three were baptized and the front rows were strewn with many in tears asking for personal prayers. One of the things I liked was NA is just like back home.....before and after there is such great noise of people simply happy to be together.
Although not at home, I preached at Memorial as well this morning as I taped the sermon back on Wednesday afternoon between.....well, just between. I feared I may have looked sickly. I tried to sound as happy as I could. I love being with the church wherever God lets me go....but I really, really, really miss my Memorial Drive family back home!
To the guys who need to know this.....I won't be at the meeting in the morning. Whatever comes up for a vote.....I say go for it!
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
TO BE OUT OF TOWN
I'm to leave tomorrow for Atlanta to speak at a men's retreat. Ice is coming our way again. Plus, I'm in day two of the flu....the real good kind. If I'm able to get out of bed tomorrow and able to get to the airport, I'm headed for Georgia and will be back in the office Tuesday morning. Notes from me on this blog may be few during this time.
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
ONE OF MY BIGGER STRUGGLES
From the very beginning of Memorial World the elders would say, "You are just too sensitive." Well....to my credit maybe we needed some sensitivity around here....would be my usual silent debate under my breath. Truth: I was too sensitive. I think I still am.
The elders and staff have helped me learn that self isn't supposed to be the purpose of plans and ideas. What's weird is I can quote passages which teach it, but I couldn't seem to get it in my heart. Through decades of patience I feel like I am finally coming over the horizon with growing understanding of what they have been trying to tell me lo these many.....decades.
I have made such big deals out of things and totally missed the picture....the bigger picture. While intensity does have its place in getting kingdom things moving, self-defense is not one of them. Jesus shrugged such a pattern. His walk wasn't about Him. It was about the Father connecting with the children. Ours is the same calling.
I'm enjoying leadership more. Life in the church is progressing. I don't yet possess a knack for the best leadership. But the committed patience of my colleagues has given me the room to consider growing up.
If you have a guy like me in your midst, do your best to be patient. He might get there one day. I remain grateful to get to learn the simple things of leadership. I'm assuming some of you do as well.
Monday, February 18, 2008
DEATH BRINGS THE BEST OUT OF US
To keep my own emotions in check, I occasionally walked away from the bedside to the window from which I stared out in no specific direction. A fussy world races right on by. Car horns are honking, street lights systematically blinkety-blink, and patrons file into their favorite stores as if on the main mission. “Don’t you people know there’s a man dying in here and a family crushed?” I say quietly to myself realizing there no need for such criticism. How could they realize it? They are busy being normal.
But, not all is negative on this sunny afternoon. Once again I cannot help but note how pending death has advantageously mellowed all moods. Kindnesses are the only order of the moment. Compassion holds hands with Consideration as no one presses to be in the front of the line. Not once were the Stock Market or the Emmy’s discussed. There was little chance anyone cared if Roger Clemens was misremembered against. A loved one was gasping for his last 100 breaths….99…..98…..
Would it be all right if I pointed out to you while you are not in such a setting that your beefs and gripes are probably insincere? Ah, they are simply big talkers who don’t really mean what they’ve steadily conveyed. Could it be we have better ways to spend our brief time on earth? Yes, it would be all right to make such a note. Love the people who love you. And, as did Jesus, love the people who seem to hate you. They don’t mean it. Being in the presence of death seems to rearrange feelings, moods, and emotions…..all for the better.
Sunday, February 17, 2008
WORKING WITH GOD
Our knowledge of God is so small. He is surpasses measurement but our understanding of Him is fascinatingly piddly. As we absorb new facts and concepts about Him and His kingdom the only thing we seem to really gain is awareness that He surely is undiscoverable. Eternity in Heaven? It'll take 10,000 years just to catch our breath, another 10,000 to look over His entry way and who knows how long it will take to view the clips and the trailers from His production of Parting of the Red Sea. They say He has a later version filmed at the Jordan River is a real show stopper as well!
It is exciting to think God would desire to partner with any of us. We are so in over our heads. Regardless of our lack, His grace putties over our cracks, smooths our blemishes, and covers our rebellion. He is the Master of everything including people.
Don't be set back by any earthly comments or negative circumstances. We are so behind in catching up to our Partner God that we have little time for lesser distractions!
GOOD FOR US TO THINK ABOUT
Everyone has a different opinion on the war, and with our current President. But, this article makes a lot of sense, and I hope you will read it and give it some thought.
What a difference 60 years makes..!!!
'You ain't gonna like losing.'
Author unknown, but he should have been given the Medal of Honor for this:
President Bush did make a bad mistake in the war on terrorism.
But the mistake was not his decision to go to war in Iraq . Bush's mistake came in his belief that this country is the same one his father fought for in WWII. It is not.
Back then, they had just come out of a vicious depression. The country was steeled by the hardship of that depression, but they still believed fervently in this country. They knew that the people had elected their leaders, so it was the people's duty to back those leaders.
Therefore, when the war broke out the people came together, rallied behind, and stuck with their leaders, whether they had voted for them or not or whether the war was going badly or not.
And war was just as distasteful and the anguish just as great then as it is today. Often there were more casualties in one day in WWII than we have had in the entire Iraq war. But that did not matter. The people stuck with the President because it was their patriotic duty Americans put aside their differences in WWII and worked together to win that war.
Everyone from every strata of society, from young to old pitched in. Small children pulled little wagons around to gather scrap metal for the war effort. Grade school students saved their pennies to buy stamps for war bonds to help the effort.
Men who were too old or medically 4F lied about their age or condition trying their best to join the military. Women doubled their work to keep things going at home. Harsh rationing of everything from gasoline to soap, to butter was imposed, yet there was very little complaining.
You never heard prominent people on the radio belittling the President. Interestingly enough in those days there were no fat cat actors and entertainers who ran off to visit and fawn over dictators of hostile countries and complain to them about our President. Instead, they made upbeat films and entertained our troops to help the troops'
morale. And a bunch even enlisted.
And imagine this: Teachers in schools actually started the day off with a Pledge of Allegiance, and with prayers for our country and our troops!
Back then, no newspaper would have dared point out certain weak spots in our cities where bombs could be set off to cause the maximum damage. No newspaper would have dared complain about what we were doing to catch spies.
A newspaper would have been laughed out of existence if it had complained that German or Japanese soldiers were being 'tortured' by being forced to wear women's underwear, or subjected to interrogation by a woman, or being scared by a dog or did not have air conditioning.
There were a lot of things different back then. We were not subjected to a constant bombardment of pornography, perversion and promiscuity in movies or on radio. We did not have legions of crackheads, dope pushers and armed gangs roaming our streets.
No, President Bush did not make a mistake in his handling of terrorism. He made the mistake of believing that we still had the courage and fortitude of our fathers. He believed that this was still the country that our fathers fought so dearly to preserve.
It is not the same country. It is now a cross between Sodom and Gomorra and the land of Oz. We did unite for a short while after 9/11, but our attitude changed when we found out that defending our country would require some sacrifices.
We are in great danger. The terrorists are fanatic Muslims. They believe that it is okay, even their duty to kill anyone who will not convert to Islam. It has been estimated that about one third or over three hundred million Muslims are sympathetic to the terrorists cause...Hitler and Tojo combined did not have nearly that many potential recruits.
So...we either win it - or lose it - and you aren't going to like losing.
America is not at war. The military is at war.
America is at the mall...
Friday, February 15, 2008
OUR WORK ISN'T FLUFF
Charles and Andy meet the first Thursday of every month for breakfast. They once were discussing preaching; its theory, direction, etc. Charles told his son, “You’ve got to have a burden. That’s the thing most preachers are missing. A burden. If they don’t have a burden it’s just a bunch of fluff.”
I love that thought. Such a statement pierces the air of church busyness, mission statement preparation, organizational shuffling, and the showing up at the appointed times. It clears the church sinuses. We do well when we have a burden. I have one. Do you?
I want the entire religious world and all of the non-religious world to know the abundant life God desires for us. So many churches don’t know of it and don’t have it. So many away from God, of course, don’t have it. I don’t think there’s anyone in the world, if they knew about it, who wouldn’t want it. My burden is to get the news out. See I not only believe we can do it, I think it is getting done.
While I may work from a small cubicle located at 747 S. Memorial in Tulsa, I work the entire planet. We do it together as a part of his body. Memorial Drive has people stationed in Scotland and Guadalajara and South Africa and Iraq and on Oklahoma Christian's campus and in Detroit and Indianapolis…..that’s just a smidge of the people I know directly who are involved in God’s work. We are sending others I know from here to Kenya and Honduras and China.
But what excites me even more is my burden connects me to others in the body whom I don’t know personally. I just know they are out there doing His stuff from their cubicle as I am mine. They are in Peru and Nigeria and Alaska. Some are imprisoned in Texas and New Hampshire. Believers are in serving in Iran, suffering in Pakistan, mobile in Greece and shivering in the Ukraine. God’s body is large and we are all given in the burden of seeing that mankind has a shot at abundant life in Jesus the Hero.
Do you have a burden for the world? Great! We must not bark at the church because it isn’t doing enough. We are alert to its doing more than can be imagined. Refrain from being bummed by so much going wrong. God will take care of that. Applaud and rejoice that so much is going right. Don’t be burdened that you are burdened. Transform such pressure into fuel for the world to know Life….real, authentic Life. Yes, it’s slow. Yes, it’s tough. And, yes, we are on fire for the cause. We are burdened and because of such…..we are driven to lose neither sight nor hope.
Share your burden. What keeps you enthused and thrilled over kingdom work?
THE MARKS OF THE EARLY CHURCH
Who's right and who's not seems to have been assumed the trump card on the table. The huge problem with such an overbearing question is how quickly leadership and its movement slips into self-rightness (self-righteousness) which one finds Jesus fighting at every crossroads. "We are right!" "We are right!" say the placards held high by the protesters across the land.
Jesus is right. The Word is clear we could never get there on our own, by ourselves, regardless of superior training or coveted understanding of the original language. Yet, we continue to march in the parade and carry the banners which now read, "We are Right!" "You are Wrong!".
I was wrong about being right. Jesus makes any of us right. Jesus is our mark. Think about it: preachers who are angry, elders who are disgusted, members who are hacked....this reflects the hope and assurance of a believing true body of Christ? Why the tension? Why such extreme touchiness in our brand of spirituality? If we slip into believing we are right then abundant pressure presents itself. We cannot rely on the Holy Spirit to bear His fruit of kindness, patience, and love. He won't bear it in us and we can't produce it on our own.
Being right isn't the mark of the early church unless one is discussing the righteous gift God gives us. Pulpits and pews have been ransacked by the bully of rightness. Preachers fear they'll get it wrong and members become convinced they will never be good enough to meet the standards arrogantly taught in Bible classes. They don't rebel visibly. They simply pack up their weaknesses and carry their tackle to the lake where they can hope to find some semblance of peace and quiet and joy.
It should have been found in the church for such is the fruit of the Holy Spirit. But it wasn't found by too many as the slimmer crowds continued to say to one another, "You know many are called but few are chosen." The selection was never based on who could name the fives steps to anything. It is based on who believes Jesus is the one who makes any of us right.
Wednesday, February 13, 2008
WEDNESDAY NIGHTS AT CHURCH
Let's say we cancel Wednesday nights. We say we are too busy and these nights simply press an already smothering schedule. So, how do you feel about it? I don't like it. Why? I love being with my church family. It's a mid-week reunion to me. Each gathering is like I won some sort of shopping spree where I can visit as many as I can within a certain time limit. Tonight, as hurried as I visited, I still let some whom I love to be near get away before I could get in my gab time with them.
Yet, there seems to be a problem. Gradually, fewer of my family (church family) shows up. For me, the issue isn't what's going on that's valuable. It's the fact we get to see each other. I don't necessarily need to sing or pray or study. Fine if we do. Okay with me if we don't. I just want to be connected. I want to relate to the people. Sometimes I can't wait for us to dismiss so I can engage in the good stuff. Other times, I feed from the thoughts and songs shared. Does anyone else go through these hoops?
The fact is fewer seem to be assembling on these nights. I'm for evaluation and adjustment if such would be beneficial. I'm not proposing to start a movement, understand. The reason for this discussion is you may have experienced a Wednesday night breakthrough you would share. Or, you may have a thought as to why you think what we are doing is right on track.
What would be your take?
I HAVE SOME GOOD NEWS!
I began my career as a bad-news preacher. I addressed the critics mostly. Truth be told, we may have been a bad-news church. I misunderstood preaching. Loud and stern were twin tools of my trade. Claims of bravery justified myself against the scoffers. Of course the church didn’t like it, but that’s because they weren’t spiritual. So I told myself. Today? I am a good-news guy.
How did this change come about? First, I noticed my elders being kind and full of mercy toward the flock as well as the staff. They kept saying encouraging things as if they were really rooting for us. Odd, don’t you think? Shepherds who give benefit of the doubt? Actually care about potential failures becoming possible successes? I found myself out of step. Strangely, this was confusing to me.
I was raised in a harsh environment, converted to the identical atmosphere in the church, and assumed such a style as both normal and biblical. Yet, the Holy Spirit fruit was none of that. The more recent sets of elders were none of that. I’ve had to learn (am always learning) to yield to the Holy Spirit.
So Sunday I’m preaching on two facets which will help our flock feel more satisfied in their walk: prayer and giving. I won’t give them bad news. I’ll inspire them to pray more and give more by pointing out how much good they are already doing in this area. Why? Because it’s the truth. This church is incredible in prayer and giving. Some though are struggling to reach such heights. By pointing out the good going on, I believe such will encourage any who are not there yet to see the possibility. It will be a good news morning.
Our elders continually point out the good things about the staff and about the flock. We live in good news. Therefore, I urge you to evaluate your place of ministry. Whatever needs arise which may seem to be considerably weighty, try to believe a huge part of the solution would be for you to be a good news sorta minister. It will change the atmosphere of your place!
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
SO....WHAT'S NEW?
So what’s new? I ask not necessarily on the basis of quoting chapter and verse. But what is really new where we live? Oh, so much has changed. Let us count the ways:
We find a place (His kingdom) that lets weak ones get to serve in big ways.
We can trust His carrying our load when we caused the problems…we are invited to take our burdens to Him.
We can remember Gideon when making exertion which seems to go backward in effectiveness.
We transfer the heart of David into our skin when facing obstinate bullies as Goliath.
We discover Jesus redefines normal.
We can refuse to be shaken by temporary injury and insult.
We find the church truly comprising of more than duties; it is our relationships.
We can start over…..again.
We can trust Him when we can’t explain Him.
We can believe when it makes no earthly sense.
We can take our imagination to the limit and then anticipate He’ll trump it.
We can expect Him to use us for great things all the while feeling completely inadequate.
We can quickly recover from disappointment in others and self.
We can feel like a little kid with excitement even if we’ve been around a long time.
I could go on and on. We are born again! Such a rebirth changes us…..a lot! What would you add?
LIVING OUT THE IMPOSSIBLE
Our heads are in heaven and our hearts are in Christ while our feet roam earth’s landscape. That's a pretty far stretch, don't you think? Why wouldn’t one walk in conflict? It takes the Master to sort us out. How shall we succeed? How do we lead our people to victory when the flesh gravity is so doggone strong....and sometimes bossy?
Each day and every turn presents opportunity. If we confess the invisible is reality and superior to that which we see, obviously our heart-eyes are in tact. Just what is it we see when looking at what the rest of the community views? We see what they see and beyond it. We see to it and through it into the new realm. Biblical terms like mystery and surprise and possible no longer bug us. They free us and excite us.
We live in a land thirsty for a new kind of life. All of the name brand politicians are correct. America wants change. It isn’t that we want a new face or a new policy only. We want change to mean something. God’s kingdom is the route to go. It defies what earthiness presses as true. We can live on earth while participating in heaven. That, my friend, is the ultimate change. We may be here, but the supply is from there. Oh that we could be wowed. One of the things I told God early this morning was, God, it’s fascinating being a person. Head out today enthused to possess a faith which defies logic.
Monday, February 11, 2008
LEADERSHIP ADJUSTMENTS
Leadership is a living entity. It is not a solidified once-established fact, but a constantly moving and fluid activity. If we are leading we are in perpetual tension to know when to speak up and when to remain silent; when to take action and when to wait. Leadership finds itself assessing the need to make daily judgment.
The transition from being a good follower to a good leader seems to be in the realm of courage. There are moments when one can seem to be quite alone. Shall we drift with the herd of acceptance or enter the alley of loneliness by risking rejection? The latter is where leaders are birthed. Jesus was many things. His brutal rejection, though, lit up the world of leadership.
So, my word to you guys and gals out there on the front line: with humility in being fully aware of your deep flaws lead out in bravery. Souls are weary of trying to follow mediocrity. Give them a light to follow. They want to know the way to life. You may be their hope!
Saturday, February 09, 2008
WHAT CREATES VISION?
Crisis causes dreamers to take action. Calvin Miller wrote, Often vision comes as the result of some tearing circumstances by which we come to an end of our own ability to make life work. My guestimate is that the good souls of Arkansas, Tennessee, and Kentucky are more benevolent, more freeing of their money and possessions this week than in the previous twenty-four months. Why? Tornadoes ripped their neighborhoods.
Compassion now takes over. Really, it begins to rule. Vision pole vaults crisis! It loves the challenge. It lives for such a time. So, dear believer, while some in your pocket of society bemoan the negatives which may be in abundance, just rememeber you possess a spirit...a Holy Spirit....who loves to strut His stuff when human minds start to retreat. Onward Christian soldiers....we've got dreaming to do!
THIS WILL MELT YOUR HEART
Notice the windows in a row along the top. Click "About", "Him", and "The Ripple Effect".
Once you've read these three segments, write me back and tell me if you were moved.
Friday, February 08, 2008
COLLEAGUES WANT TO KNOW GOD...BUT DON'T KNOW WHERE TO START
Not realizing my spirit was hungering from within in those college years, I began to pick up the Bible and read at it. I’d take on three verses a day. Such a weak approach proved my premeditated opinion to be accurate once again….boring. I eventually shifted my search to topics listed in the back of the Bible. Once I was curious about why it was wrong to dance. I didn’t dance but was simply trying to decipher the Word. The listing indicated dancing was forbidden, but when referencing the recommended verses there was no word “dancing” mentioned. More confusion.
To make matters worse, the references seemed unstable as to the whereabouts of a guy called John. There was John I and II and III which made no sense. It got more confusing. There was a fourth John but the book was called Revelation. Go figure. Too, there was a fifth John known as Regular John or Plain John….or Just John.
My point? I’m convinced there are hundreds and thousands today who are just like I was. Their interest in God is awakening their spirits. Their self-imposed objection to Him is melting. But, they have no idea where to begin. For those of you who have desks in the workplace, get a religious book by Lucado or Swindoll or whoever and place it on one corner. Say nothing to anyone. Just lay it there. See how many ask if they could borrow it. I’m telling you, people around you want to know God. You can help them get started. It’s easy.
Wednesday, February 06, 2008
A NEW BOOK ON PRAYER COMING TO THE WORKSHOP
While the 139 pages is an easy read, it lacks not for depth and insightfulness. Few pages are left clear of my yellow highlighter and seventeen of them are now dog-eared. I really like the book. Keith makes simple point after magnificent observation. He did a good job of directing us to the lifestyle of our Savior’s prayer habit. He explains effectively how we can know what Jesus prayed for by measuring the results and activity. It isn’t that Keith points out matters about prayer or about Jesus we didn’t necessarily know. But he ties everything together to where the reader keeps experiencing “ah-ha” moments of understanding.
I encourage you to watch for the book at the workshop. Regardless of how much we learn about prayer, we will ever be in need of growing in this foundational area. I’m not a great man of prayer. I’m not even average. However, due to writings such as Keith’s I find myself continually encouraged to trust Him more than me.
IT WASN'T A LEGAL HOLIDAY...BUT COULD BE
Being human, we tend to be appreciative too late. We don't necessarily acknowledge a garage door that works four hundred times. We just curse it when it fails. We seldom soak in the presence of electricity, food, shelter, and health. We simply pray for its return when absent. Are we this way with freedom? Do we have so much of it for so long we find ourselves easily annoyed? Do we sigh when we get recorded messages from candidates seeking our vote or complain about the amount of television coverage politics generates? Oh that Iraq and Iran could encounter such stress.
So thank you General Gillespie, and Gay Jones, and Doris Carlisle, and Ron and Mona, and my dad, and Tom Ezell and countless thousands like you who gave reckless abandon to see we could continually live in perpetual holiday. Super Tuesday was a tribute to soldiers, many of whom never got to come home to hug their momma one more time, shouting to the world we are taking action upon the grit of our finest heroes.
Once again I draw your attention to like right now. I ask you to love it that you live in a nation under God where you can see multiple candidates bid for the presidency in each party and then two will slug it out for the big job. We are in on it. We receive information. We can comment. We get to vote.
I encourage you today to live like you possess luxury. Don't let complaint or feeble irritation distract you from the holiday called today. It's a wonder to behold. So...behold it!
Monday, February 04, 2008
FOOD AND WATER
Our heritage comes down pretty hard on brands of faiths which have bypassed what we believe to be essential regarding the essence of baptism; i.e. that it is biblically accurate only by immersion. Other practices find our clear opposition. We've taken our stance and we have refused to surrender. After all, the scriptures and original language seem to be in sync that baptism is a burial.
Regarding the Lord's Supper, though, we have not such a stance. While it seems clear such an event is always involving a meal, our tradition has felt it permissible to reduce it to emblematic pinching of a cracker and sipping of a thimble full of juice. Such a practice is never promoted in scripture by command, example, or necessary inference.
Have we accepted a principle to the Lord's Supper which we condemn in denominational baptism: reduction and sybollism for convenience sake? Are we guilty of practicing a form among ourselves which we have notoriously judged as forbidden in others? I think we have. I think we, as Romans 5:1-2 points out, are found guilty of the same thing we criticize in others.
If this is true, what does it mean? One thing is clear. We again find reason to be accepting and tolerant of others while we do our own laundry. It's not that we don't do anything right. We do. It's that all the others don't do everything wrong and sometimes they may get their direction from the same place we get ours: traditions passed down from generation to generation while we call it "of God".
HEARTBREAKER
Terry,
Will you have the Memorial family pray for the child who sent me this email through our Ask The Preacher icon on our website. I don't know where he lives, but I answered him as best I could. We are praying.
"hi my name is Ronny i am 11 years old. the medicine they make me take makes me bald. my friends make fun of me and push me around. i got in trouble they took my cap and jacket and put into the creek at the bus stop. they spit on my head on the bus and the driver put me on report for changing seats while bus moving.
my dad wont get me more hats cause he says i am iresponcible and lose them. they took my science book and spaceshuttle model and threw over the brigde in the creek. is it true that i will go to jail or hell if i beat him up to make them stop? do they hit bald people in jail or hell? i know you probly wont answer cause you sound important and would be mad that i getting in trouble. i didnt used to tho. i dont like it at school anymre and i wish God would make them stop."
Thanks, Terry.
See you soon.
Keith
Saturday, February 02, 2008
FINANCIAL HEALING
I am able to join in the conversation regarding the bully of indebtedness and how it is ruining society. Overextended credit, unfortunately, has become the boss of the house. The man is no longer the head of the household in many cases. The credit card companies are. Such is killing our families and permanently retarding our children. They are groomed to want, demand what they want, and get what they want as mom and dad lead the pack. Society is suffering great injury from being in love with money and what it can buy.
Such injury can be healed. We must band together determined to love God more than money. We must signal to Him we trust the Master more than Mastercard. We must join together to push the bullying giant of indebtedness back. It can be done, should be done, and will be done.
Giving instead of keeping is the ladder out of the debt pit. God’s kingdom is so often backward to earthiness. Give ourselves out of debt? How does that work? God never reveals His secret to such mystery. It may be $25, $10, or $1 a week increase, but I encourage you to beef up your giving. Your getting isn’t what’s creating the burden. Lack of giving is. We must send a signal to Him we believe Him more than we believe our billfold.
Steve Diggs will be here in October for his No Debt, No Sweat Seminar. I believe what this man will share will break the back of obnoxious and stubborn debt. I believe it will free a burdened generation. For those of you not living in Tulsa, some may want to load up the van and get here for that Sunday/Monday event. Financial healing would bless America….and will begin with the church.
Friday, February 01, 2008
KINGDOM LIFE....WHAT A THRILL
A GOLDEN OPPORTUNTIY
March 27-29 is your opportunity to attend the Tulsa International Soul Winning Workshop and gather a group to come along with you. It's a huge family reunion and your trip could magnify such intent. Why not bring a couple or a van load or a charter to Tulsa?
Here is the website: http://www.tulsaisww.com/ On it you'll note:
- A poster link you can print out for your lobby and classrooms.
- A list of speakers and schedule.
- Teen plans
- Childcare
- Motel list
PRAYER: Our Declaration of Dependence just might be something you and your congregation needs to experience. It might be time to extend your efforts to God's people all around. When I was making plans to film a group asked if they could go along. I was surprised anyone would want to go. Then they wanted to charter a bus and get others to go. I told them I didn't think anyone would sign up. 32 went and it was so exciting. What did I know? Maybe you think no one would want to go with you. Before you decide for them, maybe you should ask them.
This is a golden opportunity!
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
SELF: LOSE IT OR LOSE IT.
Self has to be one of the greatest ironies. Keep me in front of the line, but don’t let anyone see me. Do things the way I want, but don’t call on me as I’m far too weak to lead. I’ll quickly and confidently point out what others surely lack, while self is absorbed in the highest of restraining insecurities. I am capable of living in assertive criticism of others while scared to death of my own shadow. I’m a bully in attitude and cowardly when it comes to needed action. Self goes with me everywhere I go and often ruins everything. We carry on a ridiculous romance with a self we often find we very much dislike.
Take courage. Leap. Throw self away so the person you wish to be can be handed back to you by God. If one loses his life he saves it and if he saves it he loses it…..every time. You are good enough for God to choose. He picked some weird nutcases to work His kind of field. God defies what we regard as normal or even revered. From cover to meandering biblical cover, God selects the oddest kind to do His most powerful work. Cowards hid under vines while red-necks wore wilderness garb…all preparing the path for the One who would not fit the human code of success.
Jesus is brilliant! He ruined ruin! He slaughtered slaughter. He reversed an irreversible course. Of all the odd ducks, we get to walk in the aftermath of His genius. God gave us Jesus’ mind. We have it. We are enough in Him. This Self who wants to hide in career and remain unaccountable to any who might slightly suggest needed alteration is the very Self God ordains to beat Hell with a stick and lead masses to Heaven; never realizing we made any move worth reporting. We simply believe as Obadiah and Esther and Silly Peter that the living God works marvel in the weird and most unstable zone called Self.
Self….lose it or lose it. Lose it now or lose it later. It’s simply got to go.
TULSA WORLD ARTICLE....PAGE A-2
BOBBY ROSS JR. / Courtesy Jose Oquendo (left), the third base coach for the St. Louis Cardinals, offers tips to Terry Rush after a game Saturday at the team’s fantasy camp in Jupiter, Fla. Rush, the senior minister of Memorial Drive Church of Christ in Tulsa, played on a team coached by Oquendo and the former major leaguer Cal Eldred.
By BOBBY ROSS JR. World Staff Writer 1/30/2008
A Tulsa pastor attends the St. Louis Cardinals' fantasy baseball camp in Florida each year, to play and to pray.JUPITER, Fla. -- After a performance praised by former baseball manager Whitey Herzog, the hotshot center fielder brushed off fans as he left the field at the St. Louis Cardinals' spring training complex. "I can't sign right now," he proclaimed. "I'm sorry." Then No. 14 burst out laughing at his own joke.
By BOBBY ROSS JR. World Staff Writer
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
DON'T YOU LOVE RIGHT NOW?
Have the hearts of men and women basically become declawed? Have we lost our passion for the wonder of dailyness? Has habitual repetition of schedule wrung us dry of adventure, journey, and exploration? Has your approach to the office or the lunch meeting or the return home found itself depleted of ambition?
Howard Macey wrote, The spiritual life cannot be made suburban. It is always frontier, and we who live in it must accept and even rejoice that it remains untamed. How do you think the Jesus-life of abundance becomes so easily discarded? The question isn’t about one going to church. It’s regarding one who should still be infatuated with life, but such no longer exists. The wild heart wants more than happiness. It yearns for excitement!
Perhaps we suffer from a self-imposed safety measure of control due to fear. Could it be we are so filled with pride we’d rather be miserable not trying than to risk failure? Could it be refraining from embarrassment has replaced effort to launch into areas we want but don’t control? Could it be that getting the right breaks isn’t what life is about, but daring to leap into the possibilities God always intended for our lives is your call? Regardless of age, weigh every reason you can say you love right now.
Monday, January 28, 2008
I'M BACK FROM BASEBALL CAMP
Last week was awesome! I saw God working day after day. I love doing what counts in life. What counts? People need to be loved. People need to hear encouragement. There is so much stress, so much hatred, so much angst. Having the mind of Christ and loving people whose paths intersect is the God-call. There is no law against love and everyone I meet could use just a little more.
More later....like tomorrow....but letting you know I'm back AND VERY HAPPY!
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
This is starting to show up on some blogs around the world....well, maybe Brenda Hughes' anyway. When Jeff and I are speaking at the same time, I try to urge most people to sacrifice by going to hear him. It just makes me feel better knowing I tried. But...crowds are crowds.Speaking of Walling speaking, check out the workshop website at http://www.tulsaisww.com/ Lots and lots of special things going on for families, children, teens, missionaries, and leaders.
I'm headed for Cardinal Legends baseball camp in Jupiter, Florida early in the morning. Pray for this effort. Lord willing, I'll be back at Blogville early next week!
Monday, January 21, 2008
LET ME INTRODUCE MYSELF
Years later and early one morning while in Nashville to speak at Jubilee the stranger on the elevator said, Man I'm not believin' it. What's that?, I asked rather shyly. My wife's your first cousin and she's wanting to see you. She is? I didn't know I had any cousins in the church. Yep, you sure do from West Virginia and she's sure excited to see you! Really? I didn't even know I had cousins in West Virginia. Well, buddy you do and if you got time I'm takin' you to meet 'er right now! Off we went and he kicked the door open to find his wife with hair in curlers, I brought 'eem! You brought who? Your cousin Terry Rush! No, she snipped, not Terry Rush!!!! I said Jerry Rushford!!!
But the biggest indication of who I really am is what the little eight year old boy wrote in my Bible immediately after I had signed his and then I asked if he'd sign mine. With great effort to make a commanding statement, the young man penned, Dear Mr. Rush.....you are an anonymous preacher. Oh, he didn't know I had already learned that in Richmond and Nashville.
WORKSHOP: A REASON TO BE ENTHUSED!
Dear blogger friend,
Would you pass this schedule along in your blogs, to your congregations, and around the world? I need to get the word out and you are a tremendous resource!
How do you like the line-up?
TULSA INTERNATIONAL SOUL WINNING WORKSHOP
March 27-29, 2008
THURSDAY
8:00 Booth Area Prayer Garden Participartory Prayer
9:00 Pav Don McLaughlin UNchristian: How the World Views Us
Pav “A” Francisco Davila Sabes Que Dios Tiene Un Propósito Para Ti
UpEx Marvin Phillips Let's Restore the Passion!
LoEx Lee Keele Becoming a High Impact Teacher
Cafe Lee Porter/Mike Brown Youth Leaders’ NCYM Forum
10:00 Pav Tim Luster Does a Struggling World Have A Prayer?
UpEx Jason Thornton…God, Save Us From Ourselves
LoEx Sara Barton Knowing Jesus
Cafe Patrick Mead ReImaging the Church
KidZone Misty Matthews God: My Rock
11:00 Pav Rick Atchley The Church Has Left the Building Pt. 1
Pav “A” Deaf
UpEx Terry Rush The Future Direction of the Workshop
LoEx Albert Lemmons The Most Encouraging Teachers of Prayer
Cafe Judge Morris Living with the Odds
2:00 Pav Edward Fudge Discovering the Secrets of God’s Guidance
UpEx Josh Graves Praying Like Jabez
LoEx Sara Barton Living Jesus
Café Lee Porter/Mike Brown Youth Leaders’ NCYM Forum
3:00 Pav Buddy Bell Jesus’ Surpassing Path to the Abundant Life
Pav “A” Deaf
UpEx Keith Roberts Why God Waits For You to Pray
LoEx Mac and Mary Owen The Compassion of Witness
Café Joe Almanza Evangelism by Prayer
4:00 Pav Rick Atchley The Church Has Left the Building Pt. 2
Pav “A” Jason Thornton Guided Prayer
UpEx Don McLaughlin UNchristian: How We Are to View the World
LoEx Jackie Chestnutt How To Improve the Church Back Home Pt. 1
Café Francisco Davila How Churches Can Reach Our Hispanic Friends
KidZone Eric Brunson…How To Improve Children’s Worship
7:00 Pav. Josh Graves/Patrick Mead/Free Indeed Praying with Courage
FRIDAY
8:00 Booth Area Prayer Garden Time of Prayer
9:00 Pav Rick Atchley The Church Has Left the Building Pt. 3
Pav “A” Francisco Davila Dios Te Quiere En Su Reino
UpEx Rubel Shelly How Jesus Feels About Divorced People
LoEx Josh Graves Praying Like Jesus
Café Lee Porter/Mike Brown Youth Leaders’ NCYM Forum
10:00 Pav. Terry Rush How to Inspire Your Congregation to Win Souls
UpEx Rubel Shelly How Churches Should Treat Divorced People
LoEx Sara Barton Joining Jesus
Cafe Mac/Mary Owen When the Church Heals the Wounded
KidZone Misty Matthews God: My Fortress
11:00 Pav Edward Fudge Discovering the Secrets of God’s Guidance Pt. 2
Pav “A” Jason Thornton Guided Prayer (Repeat)
UpEx Mark Moore Top Ten Rules for Interpreting the Bible Pt. 1
LoEx Albert Lemmons The Most Exciting Trials of Prayer
Cafe Patrick Mead Christianity At Ground Level
2:00 Pav Jeff Walling How To Get Today's Culture to Listen to the Ancient Gospel
Pav “A” Deaf
UpEx Dusty Rush I Heard God Crying
LoEx David Skidmore What We Can Do From College Campuses
Café TeenSurge with Don McLaughlin
KidZone Eric Brunson…Puppets for Children
3:00 Pav Pam Cope w/Terry Rush From Rescuing Orphans to Appearing on Oprah
Pav “A” Joe Almanza El Poder de Dios para Salvacion
UpEx Buddy Bell Prayer: The Greatest Act of Surrender
LoEx Lee Keele High Impact Methods of Training
Café TeenSurge
4:00 Pav Randy Harris Staying Sane When Everyone Else is Crazy Pt. 1
UpEx Wade Hodges The Perfect Prayer
LoEx Jackie Chestnutt How To Improve the Church Back Home Pt. 2
Café TeenSurge
KidZone Magician Mike Kids of Wonder!
7:00 Pav. AIM
Mark Moore/Jeff Walling/Memorial Singers Praying with Faith
SATURDAY
8:00 Booth Area Prayer Garden Participatory Prayer
9:00 Pav Randy Harris Staying Sane When Everyone Else is Crazy Pt. 2
UpEx Jeff and Taylor Walling It’s not your Grampa's church…But It’s Your
Grampa's Bible!
LoEx Pam Cope Hear the Cry of Children Everywhere!
Café Charlie Kymes….FORUM FOR PREACHERS
KidZone Magician Mike….Training Adults for Creative Teaching
10:00 Pav ZOE God’s Scandalous Grace
UpEx Wade Hodges Knocking Down Heaven’s Door
LoEx A Albert Lemmons The Most Enthusiastic Testimonials of Prayer
Café Jamie Sweeney….FORUM FOR MISSIONARIES
KidZone Misty Matthews God: My Salvation
11:00 Pav Edward Fudge Discovering the Secrets of God’s Guidance Pt. 3
Pav “A” Deaf
UpEx Buddy Bell I Die Daily
LoEx Dusty Rush I Learned to Love Prayer
Café Todd Box….FORUM FOR ADDICTION RECOVERY
Noon-1:30 Pav. Free Indeed
2:00 Pav John Smith What Is A Restoration Church?
UpEx Lee Keele The Leadership Genius of Hezekiah
LoEx Nancy Kymes…FORUM FOR MINISTERS WIVES
Cafe TeenSurge
KidZone Eric Brunson….More Puppets for Children
3:00 Pav Mitch Wilburn Developing Leadership for the 21st Century
UpEx Keith Roberts Praying the World Upside Down
LoEx Marvin Phillips Getting Excited About World Missions!
Cafe TeenSurge
KidZone Magician Mike Kids of Wonder Pt. 2
4:00 Pav Mark Moore Top Ten Rules for Interpreting the Bible Pt. 2
Pav “A” Deaf
UpEx Joe Almanza Spiritual Secrets to Effective Evangelism
LoEx David Skidmore How College Kids Can Impact the World
Cafe Mac and Mary Owen The Concentration of Witness
7:00 Pav. Randy Harris/ZOE Praying with Anticipation
Sunday, January 20, 2008
FABULOUS.....THAT'S LIFE IN THE CHURCH
FABULOUS!
Being us is much more than addressing assemblies. It's walking through the halls and going crazy over who you get to see once again. Being the preacher is like having a complimentary ticket given you every day to attend the State Fair. Nothing is funner. It's FABULOUS
Being us is like being pulled over by the Highway Patrol. Passage through the hallways are not always smooth traveling as several pull us over to give us and update to their plague. We find we are often needed to be ears and nothing more. It's FABULOUS.
Being us is a sure destination to the cleaners. Little kids with donut fingers tug at your slacks and ladies with a bit of make-up leave a portion of their creativity on your lapel. And, it's FABULOUS.
One of the most powerful FABULOUSES is we get to believe in people; all ages, all philosophies, all sizes, and all backgrounds. We get to see in others the good they just can't see in themselves. We find ourselves in the wonderful position of needing to point their goodness out to them. Our "Say So" carries weight. To note members beginning to live out the positive information you've fed them is simply.....you guessed it (See how discerning you are?)....FABULOUS!
Saturday, January 19, 2008
TALKING GOD'S LANGUAGE
How do you speak to God? Baby talk or grown up? Is it, God, I poo-poo, God I hungwy so-to-speak? Or, is it God-talk: trying to pray working from His standpoint and tapping into His supply house?
I encourage you God loves a good challenge. Due to our prayers, when does He ever get to flex His God-muscles? When does He get to show His stuff? Could it be we talk baby talk incessantly to Him? Could it be we pray with our view of possibility as the prayer's boundary? I think we have small-prayed so long we have forgotten His call to just try to imagine. Dream when you pray.
I remind you He said He could do more than we can imagine or think. Therefore, pray beyond your assumption and realm of your own imagination. Thrust your prayers into your highest possible imagination and expect God to respond exceedingly beyond that. I think we pray too low. Let's begin to talk God's language giving Him opportunity to show His robust and creative powers.
Thursday, January 17, 2008
RANDOM STUFF....BUT IMPORTANT
I'M HEADED TO MY ANNUAL CARDINALS BASEBALL CAMP IN FLORIDA NEXT WEEK. I did 80 flights on the StairMaster today, plus a few other little weights and stretches. Being age 60 changes a few things for me, baseball-wise. I no longer round the bag. I sneak up on it. Last year in the big game, when I came up to bat, the outfielders laid down! It gets worse! I have a DISHONORABLE MENTION: In two of the last three years I have won the No Where To Go But Up Award. Obviously the achievement is an intended insult. The award itself? An autographed picture of three Cubs players. I gave one to David Kellams and the other to Shawn Mayes.
THE TULSA SOUL WINNING WORKSHOP SCHEDULE is now posted on the workshop web. It's about 98% complete. Once again over 25% of the speakers are rookies. It's always good to see a new crop mixed in with the oldies but goodies. Thursday night's keynotes with PATRICK MEAD and JOSH GRAVES promises to be a great beginning for the evening events.
DON McLAUGHLIN is scheduled to be the evening speaker at Memorial's Workshop Wednesday.
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
I FEEL SORRY FOR WALLING AND McLAUGHLIN
Friends rode with my family and we stayed at a widow lady's house who was a member of that local congregation. David Powers (famous David Powers) was the main speaker in the auditorium while I was the main speaker in the church basement. I stepped up to preach and there they were.....everyone who rode up in the car with me and the lone widow lady.
Since that experience I have been sensitive to opposing speakers' lists. I got my Pepperdine Lectures booklet today. I noted a big mistake. Jeff Walling and Don McLaughlin speak opposite me every morning for three days in a row. I bet when Jeff and Don read the schedule they'll be heartsick to find they are on the same time as me. No telling just how many people I will draw from their crowds. I hate it, but that's the way the schedule crumbled.
I shared my concern with Dusty and he reminded me that a couple of years ago when at Pepperdine he and Rick Atchely must have had about a thousand attend between them. That's amazing. What a crowd. I just hope against hope that Jeff and Don don't carry hard feelings. I would imagine in my class alone there will be somewhere under 860 in attendance.
I just hope they won't be too hurt.
RATHER SHEEPISH OF US....DON'T YOU THINK?
We are a strange sort because we pack such an opposing philosophy in our carcasses. On one hand we basically believe ourselves far too inadequate to speak up in public, direct a ministry, lead out in planning and organizing. We play the "ah, shucks" game and retract from so much of God's plea for us to move out and move on. Much of the time we sit with self-assurance someone else could do it better. We feel our blessing to the work is to keep away.
On the other hand, we carry extreme assumption that we are right about everything. We are right on how to handle a marriage, ideal in how to raise kids, certain on financial issues, and bull-headed about faith brands. The same ones of us who cower to the point of non-participation are dually obnoxious that our opinions and styles are "the" way to approach life.
We are dumb....just like sheep. We want it both ways on our terms when in reality we must have the Shepherd race to save us and those around us....from us! We are a complete mess with the blessings of God to enjoy abundant life! The thief among us is pride. Pride protects self from humiliation and thrusts self into imposition. Pride hides in public cowardice except when it foolishly bullies.
Would that we could become the real us: not afraid to give efforts a shot while certain that the views of others are very likely an improvement upon our own.
Now....this is a good article! We are simply.....sheep!
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
IS GOD STILL ON SPEAKING TERMS?
Agreed, the Word is alive. It declares such. Yet, it also speaks of His Spirit working with the inner man. It speaks of His Spirit power being directed to our inner man. Finally, the Word calls for those of us who lack wisdom to ask of God and He will send it in…..promise. The Bible says wisdom from above comes down…not came down.
God is on speaking terms with His disciples today. What does He sound like? How do we know He is speaking? While I feel sure I am in kindergarten on this subject, one of the ways He speaks to me is during my quietness ideas pop into my head. That’s all I know to say. All have ideas. The practicing of discerning which are from God and which are from earthy manipulation is essential. Weak argument! you say? Ah, I shall not blame you. We are weak in every aspect of our experience with Him. Yet if guided by the Word, He insists we can ask for wisdom and He will send it in.
When you pray for your offspring to find the perfect mate, are you asking for a random roll of the dice? Or, are you anticipating God’s active participation? I believe the latter. As one voices her dilemma in prayer as to which job to take (the one at Target or the one at Starbucks), is she to expect a personal guided response or should she read her Bible, throw at a dartboard, and leap headlong into what she really wanted to do in the first place?
Our God is a talker. He verbalized creation. His small talk created a Canyon that’s still Grand and a Niagra which continues to Fall. He desires fellowship with His created humanities. We are free to seek His counsel and expect an answer.
Sunday, January 13, 2008
LIFE IN THE CHURCH KEEPS GETTING BETTER
The reason I'm dumbfounded is a result of the team that went with me from Memorial. I needed them. 32 of us chartered a bus. First, I couldn't imagine anyone wanting to go. I always travel by myself, do some fun and amazing stuff, and travel back home once it's completed. Eight on my Advisory Board (helping with the film approach) went along plus a host of other Memorial members.
My Advisory Board gave themselves/poured themselves into this project. While Mindy Willman couldn't travel due to knee surgery she, Lea Anne Ward, Lee Wills, and Tom Ezell assembled a prayer team comprised of some back home to be praying every minute for 24 hours during this project. David Combs, too, is one who can't enjoy Life in Christ enough! He is inspiring to be near as he is so appreciative of the God experience.
Then there're Marcy Martin, Theresa Underwood, Brooke Kasbaum, and Angela Rampey who are now labeled my groupies. These four were in charge of seeing the set design was set up, (tastefully and beautifully) and then disassembled in quick fashion so we could get back on the bus. I was so moved by their enthusiasm to serve....and they simply saw that I had no concerns but to focus on my material to be presented. I'll never get over how charged they were to help make this project live!
I think this effort is possibly the most significant of all the exciting things God has let me do. I've ridden in the family limo with my African-American Flood family as I was adopted by Curt Flood's mom and called to speak at her funeral. To stand on the mound of the Field of Dreams in a Sox uniform and preach at a non-denominational service in Iowa was such a privilege. To see thousands holding my Jack Buck book at Busch Stadium as it had been selected by the St. Louis Cardinals to be given as their gift to the fans on Fan Appreciation Day was beyond imagination. But, to have the opportunity to inspire thousands to let God use their "everydayness" to reach others has to be at the top.
I'll never get over being on a team with one I've so admired as Marcy, or noting the servant heart of Theresa while we filmed. I'll not get over noting the tears in David's eyes while I spoke or of Lee hugging me and repeating in my ear "Thank you soooooo much." I'll never get over catching it that even the camera crew and the film director were visibly moved by the message. I'll never get over this experience. How in the world did I ever get to be me? It's His nature to show us glimpses of His handiwork. Will we be able to stand it in heaven? I'm so blessed to see heaven in those around me. I am dumbfounded at how many times I've done this seminar and, wouldn't you know, the one time we decide to put it on film.......is the best!
Thursday, January 10, 2008
THE WORKSHOP DRAWING BOARD
Too, one thing which will be different at this year's event is the singing groups will be allowed to sing at their booths compared to last year's design of one stage where the groups take turns. We tried such last year because some of the booth representatives complained about the noise level of the singing groups. However, we don't think such proved beneficial. Furthermore, last year could have used some noise.
Now to my new question. We are developing a Saturday night tradition for missionaries on the order of our Friday night tradition of AIM's Flag Presentation. Randy Halstead recommended a couple of years ago the idea of recognizing missionaries one evening. We could have them register at workshop central: name, location, etc. and then read their names from the stage and have them stand until all missionaries are standing. We could, then, have those who would like to lay hands on the missionary while one prayed from the stage area.
That's one possibility. What ideas would you add to the mix?
On another note, I leave in the morning at 7:00 a.m. with about 35 Memorialites for Monroe, Louisiana where I will film a 100% Natural Evangelism Seminar. I've done this series for 25 years and it's proven effective in motivating congregations to reach out. Lord willing, we'll film two sessions Friday night and two Saturday morning and then ride the charter bus back to Tulsa.
The four sessions will be approximately 40 minutes in length; useful for Bible classes and small groups. The Calhoun Church of Christ is meeting us at the filming to comprise a part of the audience. I hear some from White's Ferry Road and Forsythe Avenue will be participating as well. Evangelism is always a part of the body of Christ. Hopefully, this series will be of great encouragement. They will be available at the workshop.
LOST IN A MINISTRY INTENDED TO SAVE OTHERS?
While there are several who have a great grasp of their calling and are able to walk with complete vision, others are fatigued from exerting energy seemingly to no avail. Such ones have my heart. I have been there, done that, and at times return there again. It’s not fun. The good news is our God is not stumped. He knows life! He knows how to do life….in and through us.
May I offer an idea or two which might help when you hit such zones? First, as we apply ourselves there will be constant temptation to become distracted. That’s part of my point in the previous blog. An area where we might check is to ask if we are building the church or are we being built into Christ. If we are being built into the form of Christ then the church is being developed. However, if we are building the church one might find it completely and biblically organized without the Spirit of Jesus. Simply put, but always a possible threat.
I wonder if we find ourselves beating our heads against some walls because they never were God’s walls. To evacuate a great cause simply because it isn’t easy is not what I’m suggesting. Could it be that we get some ministries set in our minds but such a goal gradually becomes a contest to see if we can conquer it? Could it be we are serving without the Spirit’s participation?
What shall we do? Look for His fruit. Look for the Spirit to bear fruit. One reason some of our work is too hard might be because it has been our work from the git-go. It was never His. Never fear genuine evaluation of a ministry. It belongs to Him to keep it going or to bring it to a conclusion. It might give you angst or heartburn to let it go…..but it might be time for such a consideration. I believe there are many instances where the best progress for a congregation is to kill off the non-productive events which drain us of time and energy. After all, did He have something to say about pruning the vine? And, for good reason?
Tuesday, January 08, 2008
LEADERSHIP---THE NEED TO LISTEN
We were discussing the workshop. One of the staff members commented that my sermon topics at the workshop for the last three years have been stuck on criticizing the church which does not reflect my normal walk. (Now that's all fairly brief, but the message was certain and I verified it with him later.) Then, I mentioned my plan for 2009's keynoters and all present expressed it simply wasn't a good plan. All of them! I must emphasize there was much discussion, debate, and consideration. But, the message was clear on two fronts: I needed to re-evaluate my approach both personally and directionally.
Here's where you as a leader fits in: never assume you have a feel for the present due to your credentials and experience in the past. God's work is too big, too expanding, and too spiritual for any of us to sink our roots into earthy leadership style. We must abide by John 3:8 in grasping those genuinely led by the Spirit have one major constant.....flexibility.
I did not like what I heard Monday morning about my delivery nor my plan. But, I did like it. I am lucky to be in the church. If not careful I'll begin to coast in leadership. If not careful I'll go deaf to today's spiritual agenda. I cannot afford to become indignant over pointed need for improvement. The men at that Monday morning table were not criticizing me. They were partnering with me. I love them for it. They were not making my life difficult. They were refocusing me. Really, I'm not sure they took in what I was taking in. My conclusion is I really needed correction. The scary thing is that until some of their comments were shared, I didn't realize it.
If you are in leadership, be encouraged to be free to be evaluated. Our only goal is to give earth our best shot while here on it. I want to be a leader. I don't necessarily want to stay young. I want to stay useful for God, by God, with God. So do you. Don't let your age nor your time in service develop into resistant plaque of the spirit. Stay fresh and new the best you can. Sometimes you may be informed you are not putting out the best. In the center of such information, may what happened to me happen to you: you feel incredibly supported and loved.
Monday, January 07, 2008
ONLY A HERO. NOTHING MORE.
Being a combination of Zorro, The Lone Ranger, and Quicks Draw McGraw, I began waving my arms for them to stop. In the urgency of the moment I forgot to quit walking and tripped on the curb. Now that was weird. I went sprawling face down across the concrete. It happened so fast I didn't see anything. It wasn't even a blur. It was just sudden, fast, and splat. It's like everything went dark. Weirder yet, it seemed I didn't fall but that the sidewalk rose up to slap me across the head.
Oh sure my hands were scraped, but nothing serious. I could have called 911 or brought in a helicopter, but I felt getting up and bravely continuing my shopping would be the heroic thing to do. I must say I was amazed at how quickly my hands and arms could think as I was really focused on directing traffic. They (quick thinking arms and hands) protected me from the oncoming concrete slab. But do you know what is really amazing? Both drivers saw me fall and slammed on their brakes! Yep! I guess it might be possible that I saved their lives. I rescued them from physical and financial injury.
State Farm can thank me. Both drivers can thank me. I intervened! Z, LR, or Quicks? Oh, it doesn't matter. Now, there won't be an awards ceremony. It won't be necessary. Shucks, it was just all in a day's work of caring for the many anonymous of my community.
Sunday, January 06, 2008
LOOK FOR GOD
The result was one of restriction. I did not trust the talent of others while failing to realize I had the talent of a box of stale corn flakes. My last couple of elder groups have carefully shown me a better way. One of my bigger jobs is to consciously stay out of the way of God working in members. I’m neither the Alpha nor the Omega of discerning ability. I'm not even the Beta or the Theta. God is the One who gets the work done His way….in His people.
Preachers and elders and business meeting leaders, the people around us are quite capable of doing much more than we give them credit. So what if they mess up? So what if they fail? So what? Have we not done the same by blocking gifted ones from getting to serve? From getting to try?
Open up, church leader. Open up the vault of talent by trusting your brothers and sisters to do some of the good stuff. Oh sure, they might fail at their first couple of stabs at it. But, it just could be such will be their training ground to become an awesome talent among us.
In all of our members…….may we LOOK FOR GOD.
Saturday, January 05, 2008
SPEAKING OF SPEAKERS....Part Two
One section reflects the thoughts of Stephen Covey's book, The 8th Habit, where he gives statistics gleaned from a poll of 23,000 employees:
- Only 37% understood the goal.
- Only 20% was sold on the goal.
- Only 20% felt they had a clear line of sight for their tasks.
- Only 15% believed their company backs them.
- Only 20% really trusted their company.
The Heath boys then wrote: Then Covey superimposes a very human metaphor over the statistics. He says, "If, say, a soccer team had these same scores, only 4 of the 11 players on the field would know which goal is theirs. Only 2 of the 11 would care. Only 2 of the 11 would know what position they play and know exactly what they are supposed to do. And all but 2 players would, in someway, be competing against their own team members rather than the opponent."
Did you catch, Covey superimposes a very human metaphor? Do you understand that's what God did with His Son? God superimposed a human so we would get it! He gave us arms/legs/stomach cramps/and ear wax in human form so we could move from the abstract about God to the understanding of who He is and what His nature is like! This drives me nuts in gratitude! We get it because God superimposed before Covey did!
If we are to improve in communication one place to question is, Are we connecting the Living God to the human heart? Otherwise, we may be giving out chapters and verses or simply filling up the time as creatively as we can with little impact. We want our message to stick.
Too Jon mentioned in a comment yesterday, the book Communicating for a Change by Andy Stanley. I'll be picking that one up asap. Surprisingly to me, Andy recently sent me a little book he wrote called, Making Vision Stick which is similar to Made to Stick but much smaller. I recommend it as well. It's 74 small pages of ideas that stick.
Friday, January 04, 2008
SPEAKING OF SPEAKERS
Help us who preach to do a better job. I want to know. I study those like Oprah, Larry King, politicians, public speakers, and television evangelists. To me, smooth doesn’t necessarily equal effective. Yet, I do think skilled speakers are smart in their delivery whether they are of high intelligence.
Share what it is you see which might enhance our delivery in ’08. The church is deserving of our efforts to improve. God’s tool for saving the world is to have His message preached.
Thursday, January 03, 2008
ROOTING FOR THE CHAMPIONS
Over the years one can note few changes as far as campaigning goes. I would imagine in 2016 the talk will be a call for change in the Social Security system, education of our children, prescription drug costs, and health care. Why? Oh, just a hunch.
I’m sympathetic to our political governing body. As badly (and I believe sincerely) as they truly want to change America for the better, it seems the system bogs and quenches each leader’s vision. I would guess it feasible the best candidates aren’t running for president because the system shut them down much earlier. I see similarities in the church. It isn’t that many leaders lack championing drive to match their vision, the system of “the way we’ve always done it” seems to box in even the best of visionaries.
While it seems many of us enjoy much more freedom in the kingdom than we once did, I find we (I) still take note of how much easier it is to keep the flesh under law and key rather than swim upstream in spirit. It’s just easier. Whether young leader or old, I urge each of us to keep pressing in spirit. We need not be offensive but faithful. The spirit will want to go where the flesh cannot see. Debate will develop both outwardly and within.
While we are quite capable of rolling our eyes when Hillary or John Mc. or Barrack or Mitt or Mike or John E. make comment, the church might fare well if we could remember those in their teens and twenties may be looking to us to see if we will take them upward improving lives in Christ. This is an important agenda. We must be found ever weighing, sorting, and measuring possibilities, for not only what is but what can be done, that we might build, build, build people into the formation of the Prince of Peace.
Wednesday, January 02, 2008
IT'S ALL ABOUT GOD
One forwarded note landed at the desk of a local television reporter. She contacted me asking to do an interview. I obliged and shared with her enormous and hopeful expectations. The reporter was gracious and, as interviews go, I felt this would be a good story.
However, the newsreel was terrible. It was all about me; my office, my idea, my.... There was nothing in the report about God. How can a reporter miss the central theme when it was so thoroughly discussed? How can God not get into a story about God? I was ashamed of what came out. She had to deliberately go to great pains to squeeze Him out.
Two weeks later the same reporter wanted to do another story reflecting something coming out of the governors office. I refused her request explaining my great disappointment in our recent interview. She didn't get it. We did a story about God blessing people and she left Him out.
While we each tackle strenuous and overwhelming tasks, be certain the work is all about God. Yes, He uses people like us to shine. But our shining is to glorify God. Otherwise, we simply glare.
Tuesday, January 01, 2008
DO YOU EVER WISH YOU WERE MORE?
Does partaking of His divine nature ever mess with your thought processes? I mean we are each spiritual Gideons doing more than we can imagine (Eph. 3:20) while being reduced to complete nobodies (II Cor. 12:11). How can such nothingness like us participate with the Complete One in His true and glorious work and stay sane?
He called the foolish, the weak, the base, and the “are not” (I Cor. 1:26-28) to complete His work. So how do you feel participating? I feel foolish, weak, base, and not fit. It bugs me. It increasingly weighs on me. Yet that’s how God used Gideon. God reduced Gideon’s armies that the glory would be of the Divine. I feel so strange being visible in the church. I love the work, adore the people, and move with contagion for His theme. Yet, I feel so terribly and visibly inadequate.
For me, it’s embarrassing to step up in front of workshop crowds being so weak and foolish. I am a saved, gifted, blessed goof-ball. I am shallow, vain, and so far behind the church learning curve. I often wonder if my Memorial friends wince at such silliness which comes from me. I’m guessing they do and love me anyway. Yet, the Word says I partake in the divine nature. How can that be? I have a harder time making introductions and announcements than preaching.
It can only be possible as our confidence is in His Spirit and not in ourselves (II Cor. 3:4-5). It must be true. My role is to believe it. If you struggle with being you…and I’m assuming some are just like me…continue to serve. He is the goal. He is the glory. He is the life. He invited the weak and the base to partake. So? We do…gladly!