Humans are a moody sort, huh? Up one day. Oh up three years! And then one day---boom---not speaking, not responding; very distant. What's this all about?
I spent a lot of time in that prison. I ain't easy serving time there; especially for one who wants EVERYONE to like him. But...such is real life.
So what shall we do?
The solution is very simple; think upon all who do like you. Give them your mind; not the one(s) who have some sort of social problem. Theirs isn't yours to cure. Theirs isn't yours to fix. It belongs to them. Hopefully they will one day return. They often do.
In the meantime, treasure those near you who have neither abandoned nor punished. They are in abundance and you can be glad....very glad.